Pro-lifers, why do we keep fighting over "the right to choose " when we should help eliminate the need to?

They already have the choice, they always have. Move on. If abortion is bad, it won't be made any better by having, or continuiong to have, the choice. But since pro-choice people apprantly don't want to help eliminate the need to even have to face the choice, and would rather keep saying " they should have the choice " ad infinitum ad nauseum, it falls to those who would be pro-life to educate and help women, so that they don't need to ever have to choose to have their baby killed, and to push medical science, as well as effective education, so that its not an issue. We forget ourselves. Instead of criminalizing them, or patronizing with the " its wrong, but necessary and a woman's choice " lines, lets go help them not be in the situation in the first place, or if they are, help them to choose not to have an abortion, through non-coercive means Clearly the other side, largely, won't let go of taglines long enough to help them out, so we must.